is there a way to set the submit via email option to NOT prompt the user with
the notification window of the message that is about to be sent?

I just want the user to hit the submit button, send the email, and all they
should receive is the successfull/not-successful message that the form was
submitted.

I don't understand the purpose behind having to prompt the user with a
message indicating the email that is about to be sent. i don't see any
practical use in this other than to potentiall confuse the user and give them
the ability to cancel it.

any ideas is appreciated.

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