YOu need to force Rich Text Format on the invites for them to show up
properly. Right click on the address, select Outlook Properties, and then
use the drop down to change from Let Outlook Choose to Use Outlook Rich Text
Format.

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Milly Staples [MVP - Outlook]
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After furious head scratching, Pat Liney asked:
| When I am sedning meeting invites between my two computers i am not
| seeing the accept decline button. i am sending between xp home and
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| accept decline buttons to apear. i have used sedning in iformat as a
| fix, but i would like to be uniform. any help? thanks.