There is no requirement for Exchange to implement what you want to do.
Simply create the appointment as usual, without your home account on it.
Send it out.  Once you do, open the appointment, add your home address,
double click it to ensure it is going out in Rich Text Format (Outlook
Properties) and send the update.  You should receive it at home and can
either save and close or send back an acceptance.   Doing it this way keeps
your address off of the original appointment.

If you receive an invite and want to add your home address to it, repeat the
steps but at home, just accept the appointment and elect to not send a
response to the meeting organizer.