I am using Outlook 2003, (MS Exchange via Intermedia) on XP OS, and I have
installed SP1.  I'm sending meeting requests to an Outlook 2002 user, and he
only recieves a short text message (When: October 21, 2004 1:30 PM-1:30 PM
(GMT-05:00) Eastern Time (US & Canada).  Where: Office*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
), with no response voting buttons.  I have checked both Allow New Time
Proposals and Request Responses (on my system, 2002 doesn't have the option).
The other way it is recieved is this:  
BEGIN:VCALENDAR
METHOD:REPLY
PRODID:Microsoft CDO for Microsoft Exchange
VERSION:2.0
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTAMP:20040921T200411Z
DTSTART:20040928T180000Z
SUMMARY:Accepted: <meeting>
UID:040000E00000 <whole bunch of numbers and letters> 010000000C41
ATTENDEE;ROLE=REQ-PARTICIPANT;PARTSTAT=ACCEPTED;RSVP=TRUE;CN="<name>"

LOCATION:Boardroom
DTEND:20040928T193000Z
SEQUENCE:0
PRIORITY:5
COMMENT:
CLASS:
CREATED:20040922T000832Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20040922T000832Z
STATUS:CONFIRMED
TRANSP:OPAQUE
X-MICROSOFT-CDO-BUSYSTATUS:BUSY
X-MICROSOFT-CDO-INSTTYPE:0 X-MICROSOFT-CDO-REPLYTIME:20040922T000832Z
X-MICROSOFT-CDO-IMPORTANCE:1
X-MICROSOFT-CDO-OWNERAPPTID:-1
BEGIN:VALARM
ACTION:DISPLAY
DESCRIPTION:REMINDER
TRIGGER;RELATED=START:-PT00H15M00S
END:VALARM
END:VEVENT
END:VCALENDAR

Any ideas???  Thank you!!!