Write WebDAV code to iterate every contact in every mailbox. Exchange development docs start at http://msdn.microsoft.com/exchange/ with discussions in the microsoft.public.exchange.development newsgroup.
I presume you have a written internal policy in place on usage of data stored in each user's mailbox and how privacy of that data will be handled? If not, you're probably opening a huge can of worms.

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> We need to export all private contacts for all users in our Exchange
> organization to SQL. Exmerge seems to only export in PST format. CSVDE only
> exports LDAP information. Any suggestions on how to accomplish this? Many
> thanks!