Since there's no way to know what mail program a person might be using, the
only form that might work would be a web-based form. There are online
services to do this -- see http://www.slipstick.com/addins/contacts.htm .
Some us find them intrusive and delete all such requests.

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>I would like to send a query, template, and or a form via e-mail to all my
> contacts requesting of them to update (for my records) their personal
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> address
> book with me having to do each one separtely.