You could write code to check each incoming message's REcipients collection and see whether your email address is used by any Recipient. See http://www.outlookcode.com/codedetail.aspx?id=1410 and http://www.outlookcode.com/d/code/zaphtml.htm for methods to process incoming messages.

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