Depends on version, with Outlook 2003 this is easy. Go to View || Arrange By
|| Current View || Select "Hide Messages Marked for Deletion" note you may
have to reapply the Reading Pane from the View Menu, as to your second
question I dont think that can be done (at least without some coding I would
imagine).
>I am setting up IMAP and would like to find a way to make messages
>disappear
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> shutdown.
> Any suggestions