I found the content regarding email merging to be helpful.
One aspect i had hoped to get an answer on was how a single email merged
with a single contact could go to all three email address for the contact.

For instance, i have three email contacts for you 1)hotmail, 2)MSN 2)work.
i have one message "we had a baby!"
i merge the message with your contact and all three address receive an email.

If there is a way to do this, and you are allowed to reply to me, i am at

thanks, and to be clear, the message being sent is via mail merge where many
contacts will receive the message.

BC